This is nothing like a Flamingo Dancer Saturday.

It must have been close to 2am before I finally fell asleep.

I wanted to sleep in but I had places to go.

It’s no easy task maintaining the exacting standards of a goddess, but one must continue for the little people (you).

A little shopping for ingredients for the fabulous dinner I planned (okay, it was apricot chicken, but at least I assembled the food at home and it wasn’t take out!)

Then a little housework (preferably as little as possible, it is such a common past time for a goddess).

Not to mention a little time spent in the garden (right, I did mention it).

Just a little time left to rest on my laurels (my LAURELS, gentleman, my laurels)!

not that I would ever sing my own praises ( as if a goddess needs to!)

And then after a perfect family dinner

Time for a little relaxation

Hopefully Mr FD won’t have any dreams to disturb us tonight

To sleep with hopes of a happy Sunday

Before another week begins

and one must remember:

And your Saturday?

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the signs aren’t good

You know that it is not going to be a great day when one of the first things you say to your husband is, “If I could go back in time, I would go to England and stop your father boarding the boat for Australia”.

 

[as in, Mr FD's father was a ten pound pom and fresh from his arrival in Australia he met MIL and Mr FD was born 9 months after they were married.]

not so gentle reminders

I was reminded of a couple things today.

The first thing was that Mr FD can still outsmart me on the odd occasion. Mr FD wondered aloud why his wife/slave was not making him a Saturday morning breakfast and was answered with “because I am working again.” He appeared to accept the answer and wandered back into the kitchen to cook some eggs.

A few minutes later he called from the kitchen requesting I watch his pan while he made an urgent visit to the bathroom. Assuming his eggs were in danger of burning I put down my book and grumbled my way out to the kitchen.

I found a frying pan heating on the stove, but there was nothing in the pan! Mr FD could simply have switched the stove off until his return. Instead, I ended up cooking his eggs, which just happened to be ready and waiting when he reappeared.

I didn’t tell him what I may, or may not have added to the cooking eggs…but if evil thoughts could end lives, Mr FD may not last the night.

The second thing I learnt was at the hairdressers. I don’t know if they over booked, or simply mistimed things, but they were already running late when I arrived for my appointment. I waited to be taken in, then when she washed my hair she parked me for another 20 minutes while she finished another customer’s hair.

I was getting a little annoyed, well a lot annoyed, but decided there was nothing I could really do so tried a few mediation techniques and calmed myself into the moment. When the stylist returned she proceed to give me an extra long head massage when I really wanted to say “skip it and get on with the cutting”, but politeness won, if only just.

So three hours later I am at the desk making my next appointment, ready to flee like a giselle from the salon and reclaim what was left of my Saturday, when the stylist starts to thank me profusely for being so patient and not complaining and how she appreciated me waiting so calmly for her. She then gave me a $20 discount!

The day’s lessons weren’t over yet, dear friends.

Mr FD brought home a copy of Dr Carole Hungerford’s book Good Health in the 21st Century last night (it is one of the book titles we stock on our website, and he had been to the warehouse and picked up a copy). Just reading it while I waited at the hairdressers made me feel not only optimistic, that I was doing something positive with my life, but I also started to think of some healthier versions of the meals I was planning to cook this weekend.

Stopping at the supermarket to collect a few things I found myself buying organic meat and produce despite the extra cost. A Flamingo Dancer deserves only the best of course! Standing at the checkout, I was feeling really good about myself, and that is when I had another lesson, for I reached over and purchased a cloth bag for my groceries. I have a pile of cloth bags at home, but if I forget to take them to the supermarket I usually just accept plastic bags. Today I paid for yet another bag, instead.

My healthy food made me feel happy about myself, and in that state of mind I was more thoughtful of the earth. My joy is joy to the world (yes, I can hear the music too).

So, what did I learn?

Well, from Mr FD that sometimes you just have to admit defeat and retreat, to return to fight another day! One thing about marriage is that you know that there always will be a chance for revenge on another day!

My hairdresser reminded me that what goes around comes around. And maybe the meek really will inherit the earth, or at least cheaper hair cuts! I have to admit that I did get some quality reading time in too!

And that led me to my third lesson and perhaps the most important, and that is; when I care about myself, I care about others. Feeling happy, positive and proactive about my own life made me consider my environment as well, and that is a win, win for everyone.

Not bad for one Saturday, I say.

knock three times if you love me…

             There is no snooze button on a cat who wants breakfast.  ~Author Unknown

I came across this quote last night and it brought back memories from when our Son was a toddler. If he woke up before we did, he would come into our bedroom to wake us up – by knocking politely on our foreheads!

Son would knock on our foreheads until we blinked await and then he would demand his breakfast, or climb into bed with us – usually with a wet bottom!

Ah memories…

Enjoy your Saturday!

sizzling salad Saturday

Saturday was a slightly bigger day that I anticipated, as the little grandnephew and two grandnieces arrived unexpectedly as well. They are lovely children, but they did exhaust us today, or maybe we are just getting older!

Grandma Flamingo Dancer is now 84 and BIL told me that during the week she became quite worried as she couldn’t remember the name of two of our children – Daughter2 and Son. We have noticed for some time that her mental capabilities are not as strong as they once were, but we had hoped that things would not progress too rapidly. We lived through dementia with our Dad and so are very aware of the process. Still, she is having more good days than bad, so we will value that while we can.

We were just going to have a very simple sausage sizzle (a sausage wrapped in a slice of bread, with sauce and onions) but I decided to add a couple salads.

Roast pumpkin and avocado salad

and

Gluten free, dairy free., vegetarian, tuna less Nicoise!

followed by

Butterscotch surprise cake - with chocolate icing!

So, tonight, I am feeling well fed, but tired. I may give myself an early night. Being a hostess with the mostest is rewarding, but exhausting!

Sleep tight!

Recipes for those inclined…

Roast pumpkin and avocado salad

Roast pumpkin and avocado salad

Serves 6

400g peeled butternut pumpkin, chunky

2 ripe, firm avocados, chunky

Juice of ½ lemon

1 small red onion, sliced

1 bunch of rocket leaves or watercress

100g cherry tomatoes, cut in halves

60g each pepitas and sunflower seeds

1 tbsp each ground cumin and coriander

1 tsp sea salt

Cracked pepper

¼ cup (60ml) balsamic vinegar

¼ cup (60 ml) pumpkin seed oil

6 springs Italian parsley

 

Season pumpkin with sea salt, pepper, cumin and coriander and roast on baking paper in a hot over 230C for approximately 10 minutes, or until cooked but still firm. Cool slightly. Gently mix with remaining ingredients and serve on rocket leaves, with pepitas, sunflower seeds and sprigs of parsley.

Gluten free, dairy free., vegetarian, tuna less Nicoise!

Nicoise

Gluten free and dairy free. Vegetarian.

 

Serves 2 ( I obviously quadrupled the recipe!)

4-5 large leaves fresh basil, finely sliced

¼ cup extra virgin olive oil

1 garlic clove

¼ teaspoon wholegrain mustard

15 ml apple cider vinegar

¼- ½ tsp apple juice concentrate

Pinch sea salt and freshly ground pepper to taste

150g potato, scrubber and clean (smaller potatoes are best)

120g green beans (runner preferable to stringless) topped and tailed, string removed and cut into manageable lengths, then cut in half widthways.

70-80g salad green (rocket and cos makes a nice mix)

8 cherry tomatoes, cut into half

4 baby beetroot

8-10 pitted olives.

2 hard boiled eggs, each cut into quarters

 

1.Place the beetroot in an overproof dish and with a little water- about ¼ cup for 4 or 5 beetroot.

2. Bake in a moderate oven until tender when pierced with a knife tip.

3. Removing the skin is bet done when they are warm.

4. Combine the basil, garlic, olive oil, mustard, apple juice concentrate, salt and pepper in a jar. Screw the lid shut, shake and adjust to taste.

5. Put the potatoes in a pot of water and bring to the boil. Cook until tender.

6. Rinse under cold water, pat dry with a towel and cut into halves or quarters. Set aside to cool.

7. Top and tail the beans and remove any string. Bring water to boil, add the beans and cook until crisp-tender, about 1 minute.

8. Tip into colander and run cold water over to stop cooking, and dry and place in the fridge.

 

9. If the beetroot are large, cut into wedges

10. Arrange the greens in the dish and place potato and beetroot as desired. Top with green beans, sprinkle with cherry tomatoes and olives.

11. Arrange egg pieces throughout the salad.

12. Drizzle with dressing and serve.

Butterscotch Surprise Cake

125 g margarine

¾ cup of caster sugar

2 eggs

¾ cup plain gluten free flour

½ cup self raising gluten free flour

¼ cup soy milk

1 teaspoon vanilla

 

1. Combine margarine,  sugar, eggs, sifted flours, soy milk and vanilla in a bowl. Beat until smooth.

2. Spread half the mixture into a greased 20cm ring tin.

3. Pour butterscotch filling evenly over the cake mixture.

4. Spread mixture with remaining cake mix.

 

Butterscotch Filling

½ cup of brown sugar firmly packed

2 tablespoons of custard powder

½ cup of soy milk

2 teaspoons margarine

1 egg

 

1. Combine brown sugar and custard powder in saucepan.

2. Gradually stir in soy milk.

3. Stir constantly over heat until mixture boils and thickens.

4. Stir in margarine

5. Allow to cool for 5 minutes

6. Stir in beaten egg and use mixture while still warm.

Bake in a moderate over (200C) for approximately 35-40 minutes. Longer if in a bundt tin (50-55 minutes). Allow to cool in tin or ten minutes before turning out onto rack or plate. Sprinkle with icing sugar before serving.

To make in a bundt tin, double cake mixture and use one mix as base and one as top of cake, with butterscotch filling in between.  I iced the pictured cake with chocolate butter icing.

“To grow, you have to get outside and go.”

Happy Saturday, everyone.

We are having a Flamingo Dancer flocking to our house, to… well just to be together.

I hope that you enjoy the day, as much as I intend too!

artist : Cynthia Breusch

However, for those of you can’t “get outside and go” today, a little mixed bag :

not a big money spinner, I suspect!

Veruschka, Vogue, July 1968

wind from the sea by Edward Gordon

if the tobacco doesn't get you, the asbestos will!

anti-suffrage postcard attacking suffragettes circa 1910

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